Your solution to manage your family’s digital technology use and create an environment absent of meltdowns or resentment, without the need for constant monitoring, drama, or worrying about keeping your kids safe online and protecting their digital footprint so what they share today doesn’t negatively impact their opportunities tomorrow.

Are you ready to discover the secrets to controlling the chaos that comes from raising digital kids?

 My Control the Chaos signature program is the solution you NEED.

No more feeling paralyzed and afraid of social media and digital communication after hearing all the scary stories of kids getting into serious trouble because they hit “post”.

No more feeling that it’s impossible to manage your kids’ tech use while hoping they make good decisions on their own.

Just a clear plan to control the chaos in your home, keep you sane, and keep your kids protected.

Best part is you’ll feel confident that when your child makes a mistake online (and they will), you have the skills and tools to help them tackle that problem without fear that their mistake will lead to catastrophe.

How it works is that instead of constructing a flimsy web of limitations usually created when something goes wrong online, Control the Chaos shows you simple solutions to manage and protect your kids’ lives online.

This means that you’ll know how to make sure that their social media and digital activity makes them SHINE online, especially when it comes time to apply for college admissions or for a job.

Plus it means YOU can RELAX and breathe easy knowing you won’t have to sacrifice hours a day to keep your kids safe online.

 

Why You’re Frustrated

  • You don't know what you should be doing to keep your kids safe online.

  • You spend a lot of time worrying about what your kids are doing online.

  • You feel like you can't stay current with technology so why try.

  • You weren't raised on the tech your kids use so you don't know how to set rules.

  • You aren't clear where your "lines in the sand" are for what's ok to share.

  • You don't have a roadmap to know how to teach your kids to use tech safely.

  • You don't have hours to try & learn about the apps your kids use.

  • You're afraid your kids will make life-altering mistakes online.

  • You don't know where to turn when you need help or support.

  • You don't have a realistic plan to manage your family's tech that works.

  • When you try to talk about tech with your kid, they shut down & don't talk.

  • You feel like you don't have a good handle on what your kids are doing online.

 The Real Problem?

You don’t have a realistic plan that works for you and your family, to keep your kids safe online AND manage their tech and device use.

Which means:

  • Any effort you’ve made hasn’t led to lasting results

  • You lack the confidence that you CAN keep your kids safe AND set REASONABLE guidelines you can all live with

  • You tend to piece together a flimsy web of rules and restrictions in the moment as your kids make mistakes without thinking about the bigger picture

  • You’re scared you don’t have a grasp on what your kids are really doing online so you catastrophize and fear the worst

  • You deal with meltdowns and drama over tech use because neither you or your kids are clear on your expectations and consequences

 

How My Program Helps

You will learn how your own relationship with technology impacts how you parent your digital kids

You’ll discover how to keep your kids inline online without sacrificing your sanity

You’ll learn how to create open lines of communication with your kids about their online activity

You’ll have the REALISTIC Family Technology Plan you NEED to stop the drama and meltdowns

You will learn to trust yourself and your ability to handle the pressures of parenting kids in the digital age

You’ll have the support and guidance you need to know that whatever happens, you know there’s someone to turn to to get help

 5 Essential Outcomes

Your kids will be safe online without hours of monitoring or research

Stop the drama and meltdowns that accompany digital device use so you feel less stressed

Provide you with tools that allow you to feel confident you know how to help your kids when they make a mistake online

Create a Family Technology Plan that REALISITC and allows for growth as your kids age

Control the Chaos at home and raise smart, strong, educated digital citizens

 Program Content

In addition to all the content below, you’ll get 1 year of LIVE weekly group meetings, daily online access to Julie, Members-only training, Julie’s proprietary systems, scripts, templates, and resources

While the program is designed for you to go at your own pace online (even though it’s designed as an 8 week course, I know that life can get in the way, so you have a year to complete it).

If you prefer a more personalized approach, I also offer:

  • A 1:1 option where you meet privately with Julie weekly and get extra support and personalized training

  • Private group options that can be done over the course of a private group zoom once a week or as a weekend intensive retreat

 

The Curriculum

Week 1: Getting Started: Overview

1.     What other successful parents of digital natives know that you NEED to know

2.     How to get the results you need.

3.     How it all works.

4.     21st Century Parenting:  Discover why it’s harder and different from parenting previous generations of kids.

5.     The little-know secret that will get you results with your kids even faster.

a.     Homework: Digital Well-Being Personal Assessment

Week 2: Your Own Relationship with Technology

1.     Understand YOUR relationship with Technology & how it directly impacts your parenting style.

2.     Uncover YOUR own unique definition of Digital Well-Being.

3.     How does your own tech use affect you emotionally and socially?

4.     The easy steps to determine what balance means to you and how to create a plan to it.

5.     The secrets to identify the risks and benefits of technology for your family.

6.     Discover the simple steps to get your kids to see you as a role model.

Week 3: Control

1.     Uncover the root of YOUR control problem.

2.     How to control your desire to WANT to control your child’s online life to only monitoring what you NEED to see.

3.     How to get your kids inline online without sacrificing your sanity.

a.     Password Management

b.     Device and Site Access

c.      Parental Controls

4.     Discover ways to say “yes”.

5.     How to determine device readiness.

6.     Uncover the tricks to teaching digital etiquette.

Week 4: Digital Footprints: Why it Matters to you and your kids

1.     Discover the true meaning & lasting impact of Digital Footprints (yours and theirs).

2.     Uncover the lifelong importance of Personal Branding.

3.     The Secrets to why kids make mistakes online.

4.     Discover life-altering consequences from online mistakes.

5.     How to protect your digital footprint and teach your child to protect theirs

a.     Understand risks (sharenting, sexting, cyberbullying, grooming, mental health, etc.).

6.     Simple steps to create strong digital footprints for future success.

Week 5: Social Media & Online Communication

1.     How to communicate with your child to use social media properly.

2.     Discover why using COPPA, Terms & Conditions, and Age Restrictions can make your job easier.

3.     How to recognize the fine line between sharing and oversharing.

4.     Understand the meaning of “appropriate” online.

5.     Simple must-know privacy & online safety settings.

6.     The little-known “Rules” for Social Media use that will make your kids shine online.

Week 6: Being a SAFE Parent

1.     Discover how to be a “SAFE” Parent?

2.     The secret to why kids need you to be “SAFE” for them?

3.     How to stop talking and LISTEN to get your kids to talk to you.

4.     The must-know way react when your child makes a mistake online.

5.     Little-known steps to help your child recover from an online mistake.

6.     How to find a SAFE adult for your child if it can’t be you.

Week 7: The Family Plan

1.     Why you need a plan.

2.     Discover the necessary components of the plan (both for kids and parents).

3.     Uncover the secrets of consequences and follow-through.

4.     Simple steps to involve your kids in the plan.

5.     The little-known secrets to deploy plan & make it stick.

6.     How to revisit the plan as your needs and those of your kids change.

Week 8: Managing Your Plan and Being Prepared for the Future

1.     How to trust yourself and your ability to handle the pressures of digital parenting.

2.     The little-know secret to prepare you for future mishaps.

3.     How to accept that your current plan must evolve as your family changes.

4.     Uncover how to let go of the reigns at a pace that makes sense.

5.     The little-know secrets to allowing you to trust your kids to make good choices online to protect themselves and their future.

Ready to Get Started?

YOU MUST APPLY & BE PRE-APPROVED TO JOIN THIS PROGRAM, WHETHER IT’S THE ONLINE, GROUP, OR PRIVATE OPTION