What Does “Inappropriate” Mean When it Comes to Social Media for Adults and Businesses?

WE’VE ALL HEARD THE ADVICE, WHETHER FROM PARENTS, FRIENDS, FAMILY, COLLEAGUES, OR BOSSES: “DON’T POST ANYTHING INAPPROPRIATE ONLINE”. ONCE YOU’VE SAID THAT, MOST OF US ASSUME THE PERSON WITH WHOM WE’RE SPEAKING, HAS GOTTEN THE MESSAGE, TO BE THOUGHTFUL BEFORE YOU SHARE ONLINE.

INTENTIONAL VAGUENESS

The problem is that the terms “appropriate” and “inappropriate” and intentionally vague – what one person deems appropriate online behavior might be considered inappropriate by another; an idea that was summed-up by Justice Potter Stewart in his concurring opinion written in the 1964 Supreme Court decision for Jacobellis v. Ohio about obscenity where he wrote “I know it when I see it”.

TRAINING IS KEY

Businesses not only need guidelines, like a comprehensive Digital Engagement Policy for their employees when it comes to online sharing, but they also need to provide them with training.  Most of us were never “taught” social media, we simply adopted and adapted as new platforms appeared, making up our own rules for “appropriate” usage along the way. 

Employees, like it or not, represent, or are easily associated with their employers online. So, when employees make an “inappropriate” post, that unintentional social media faux pas can have a negative effect on the company at which they work.  Here are just a few examples:

  • CBS was deluged with international complaints when a freelance employee tweeted after the Manchester Arena attack to his personal following, “The last time I listened to Ariana Grande I almost died too.” Just hours after the tweet went viral, he was terminated.

  • A Netflix writer posts an ill-advised comment about an upcoming show, causing thousands to cancel their subscriptions to the service.

  • Even personal posts can quickly go viral. Donning her uniform, a woman posted “At work serving these rude a** white people.” When the post went viral, the firing was fast, but not before many customers said they would not return to the park at which she once worked.

CONSEQUENCES

I always remind people that while you are free to make your own decisions regarding what you choose to post online, you must understand that with that freedom, comes consequences.  And for employees, who violate company social media usage guidelines or who cause an employer’s brand to suffer as a result of their actions, those consequences could lead to termination.

Just because you think something is fine to post, doesn’t mean that others who see it won’t be offended by it or think poorly of you (or your employer) because of it. 

Like it or not, in the 21st century, we are all judged (and we all judge others) to some extent based on what we see online. While we are free to express ourselves, we are decidedly NOT free from judgment or unintended consequences based on what we choose to share.

Most people don’t post anything with the overt intention of being inappropriate and many are surprised when they find themselves in hot water because of something they shared online.

GET ANSWERS

Want to learn more about protecting your business or personal brand online?  Contact Echo70 today!

It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

Don’t worry about sounding professional. Sound like you. There are over 1.5 billion websites out there, but your story is what’s going to separate this one from the rest. If you read the words back and don’t hear your own voice in your head, that’s a good sign you still have more work to do.

Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.

Julie Fisher, M.Ed.

Julie Fisher is the founder of Your Digital Guardian and Echo70.  She is an author and keynote speaker with 25 years of training and education experience.  Julie previously worked as a high school teacher, a nonprofit executive director and a tech start-up CEO.

http://www.yourdigitalguardian.com
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